Wendy T. Behary, LCSW, founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and the New Jersey/New York Institute for Schema Therapy, both in Springfield. She is the author of Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving & Thriving with the Self-Absorbed (New Harbinger).
He’s boastful, arrogant, the center of attention and gets angry when anyone questions his authority. She’s outwardly unassuming but equally…