Barbara LeBey, Esq., an attorney and a former Georgia state court judge who saw firsthand how grudges escalate into serious conflict. LeBey lives in Atlanta and is author of Family Estrangements: How They Begin, How to Mend Them, How to Cope With Them (Bantam) and Remarried With Children: Ten Secrets for Successfully Blending and Extending Your Family (Bantam). www.barbaralebey.com.
Although grudges can cause great harm, they occur so often that many of us think of grudges as hardships that…
