Pepper Schwartz, PhD, is a professor of sociology at the University of Washington in Seattle…co-creator of the Duet Total Compatibility System, a profiling service of www.PerfectMatch.com…and a columnist for AARP (www.AARP.org/nakedtruth). She also is the author or coauthor of 16 books, including Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love, and the Sensual Years (HarperCollins) and Finding Your Perfect Match (Perigee). www.DrPepperSchwartz.com
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